I just need all of you fine readers out there to know that I've been drafting this blog post for about four months. And I've been doing so for a variety of reasons. First and foremost... life. Life is hard. Yes, in general and for everyone, but also, in particular, my life has been a sh!tshow -- like, positively WILD -- these past few months. Mostly in the bad way, if I'm honest, but also in the good way. I'll go into it all in another post, I promise, but right now I want to